
Los Angeles Leadership Exchange - Performance Theater: We're Measuring More and Developing Less

Los Angeles Leadership Exchange - Performance Theater: We're Measuring More and Developing Less

We measure performance more than we ever have yet we’ve been no better at improving it.
More reviews, more feedback loops, more dashboards, and still the question most People leaders carry privately into every calibration meeting: are our people actually getting better?
You're not imagining it. Gartner finds 95% of HR leaders are dissatisfied with their traditional performance process, and 59% of employees say reviews have no impact on how they actually perform. And Gallup finds only 14% strongly agree their review inspires them to improve.
Measuring performance became the work. Improving it became something we assumed was happening underneath it.
This Leadership Exchange is a closed-door conversation about that gap.
One evening in Los Angeles with local peers who own this work. We'll talk honestly about what's actually driving growth inside your organizations, what's just documentation, and what it would take to close the distance between the two.
Together, we'll dig into:
- Which of the things you measure actually change what someone does next
- What your best managers do that your process never asks for or teaches
- What happens after the rating, and how early you can really spot someone disengaging
What to expect
This is a practitioner-only Leadership Exchange designed exclusively for internal HR & People leaders who are in the arena every day.
In one focused, high-impact evening, you'll sit shoulder-to-shoulder with local peers navigating similar challenges. Through facilitated, structured conversations, we'll move quickly past surface-level networking and into real dialogue, real tension, and real breakthroughs.
You can expect:
- Curated seating aligned to your role and organization
- Guided discussion prompts drawn directly from brand-new research, built to unlock honest, executive-level conversation
- Tactical insights pulled from the field, not theory: what your peers have tried, what's working, and what they'd do differently
And yes, we'll do all of this over a complimentary dinner and drinks.
As we enjoy great food and hospitality, generously supported by Keka, we'll lean into the conversations that actually matter. The ones that sharpen your thinking, expand your perspective, and send you back to your organization stronger, clearer, and more strategically armed than when you arrived.
Additional Benefits
- SHRM & HRCI Recertification Credits: Earn credits while engaging in executive-level, operator-focused discussion on the most consequential talent question of the decade.
- Complimentary Transportation: Attend with ease. Uber voucher plus comped valet.
- Team Advantage: We typically hold 2-3 seats per company, so bring the colleague who co-owns this topic and turn the evening's ideas into momentum together.
- Gifts & Raffle: Every attendee leaves with a special gift, plus a chance to win Amazon gift cards.
- Exclusive Leadership Network Access: Join our invitation-only executive community with resources, virtual peer exchanges, and ongoing leadership development, guaranteeing you a seat at future dinners, EXchanges, and in-person programming.
Not a panel. Not a presentation.
A practitioner-only EXchange.
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What past attendees are saying.
An evening designed for breakthroughs.
Check-in & Cocktail Networking Reception
Arrive early, grab a drink on us, and step into a room of peers who carry the same performance pressures you do. This isn't surface-level networking. It's an intentional connection before the exchanges begin. Loosen up, trade context, and start the conversations that carry through the evening.
Table Seating & Strategic Peer Introductions
You'll be seated with a curated group of leaders aligned by role and organization stage, then open with a fast round on where your performance process actually stands today. These aren't random tables. Expect introductions that move past titles and into what you're actually wrestling with.
Host Kickoff & Welcoming Remarks
We'll set the tone and frame the question for the evening. Not "how do we measure performance better," but "is any of what we measure actually making people better."
Peer Exchange 1: The Measurement Trap
We track more about performance than ever. Is any of it making people better?
Ratings, continuous feedback, pulse surveys, goal tracking, dashboards for everything. Industry estimates put spend at roughly $1,500 per employee each year on performance processes and software, and 59% of employees still say none of it changes how they perform. This table is about pulling that apart honestly.
Table prompts:
- What does your organization measure today when it comes to performance?
- How much of it actually changes what someone does next, and how much just documents what already happened?
- Where has adding measurement quietly made things worse? More anxiety, more gaming, less honesty?
Peer Exchange 2: The Manager Gap
Development lives or dies at the manager level. Are we setting them up to win?
Every performance philosophy, however well designed, gets delivered through one person. Gallup finds managers drive roughly 70% of the variance in team engagement. Yet only 39% of employees say their manager gives them useful developmental feedback, and managers today shoulder 51% more responsibility than they can realistically handle.
Table prompts:
- Think about your strongest and your weakest manager at developing people. What does the best one do that your process doesn't require or teach?
- Where does responsibility for someone's growth actually sit in your organization: the manager, HR, or the individual? And where does that break down?
- What's the last thing that stopped one of your managers from having a hard growth conversation? Time, skill, nerve, or not having the full picture?
Peer Exchange 3: Rated vs. Grown
The distance between evaluating people and actually growing them.
We're good at evaluating people and much worse at growing them. Deloitte reports 70% of HR leaders believe their performance system fails to identify future leaders, even though 85% of companies have one in place.
Table prompts:
- Once someone gets their rating, what actually happens next? Is there a real path from evaluation to growth, or does it end at the score?
- Think of the last person you were surprised to lose. Looking back, when was the earliest moment you could have known?
- Who in your organization is quietly growing right now, and how do you know? What would you need to see to catch it without being told?
Dessert and Open Conversation
We'll close the formal program, but the best conversations usually keep going here. Compare notes, trade contacts, and build the relationships that outlast the evening.
More than networking. A full learning experience of value.
SHRM & HRCI Recertification Credits
Complimentary Transportation
Team Advantage
Gifts & Raffle
Exclusive Leadership Network Access

Il Pastaio
Let's Raise the People Function — Together
- First access to in-person Leadership ExchangesConfirmed access before public registration opens.
- Monthly virtual peer exchangesSmall-group sessions on the challenges you're navigating now.
- Private member directory & introductionsCurated connections to operators across roles, stages, and industries.
- On-demand resource libraryFrameworks, templates, and playbooks from every EXchange and Masterclass.
- Executive Masterclasses & roundtablesDeep-dive learning with sitting CHROs, CFOs, and senior operators.

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